So what is the typical first date like?
I would guess about 95% of you would say either a movie or dinner at a restaurant. However, I discovered another first date that beats these two in every single way:
The YOU cook for HER at YOUR place date
This is how I go about it…
Whenever I talk with a woman and that i’m interested in, I change the conversation to food and cooking. I say something like “I’d love to cook for you, but you’d have to clean the dishes!” (of course, with a smile!).
I always make sure to plan something for after the dinner though. This makes her comfortable with the idea of coming to your place. This is the time to go to the movie theater or anything that makes you exit your apartment/house.
Most women will be very impressed that you’re confident enough to cook for her without expecting any “favors” in return. But bringing her to your place is not all— this is where you need to show her your skills. Before she arrives, clean your place. Have it smell really good, buy scented herbs, have an immaculately clean bathroom, make your bed, etc. You can put any type of music (or none at all).
Buy some wine, bread, mozzarella cheese, Italian prosciutto, strawberries, chocolate and pasta if you don’t have any at your house. Prepare entrees with the bread, mozzarella and prosciutto, serving the wine while everything else heats up. Then, prepare a lasagna or any specialty of yours. I suggest Italian food is soooooo easy, cheap and good. Make sure to serve it on heated plates.
Afterwards, prepare chocolate fondue with your favorite fruits (strawberries are a must).
You can of course change this up, but I can tell you by experience, a dinner like this will cost me about $15, probably 1/5 of the restaurant cost, and without all the fuss about who pays.
I highly suggest not to go overboard (caviar, 100$ bottle of wine, etc.) because this comes off a bit strong (and expensive for you, without added value), like if this first date is a huge deal for you and it shouldn’t be.
The night will show her your skills and your class. You should end up above at least 95% of the guys she’s dated, and you’ll know about it. Expect to hear words such as “sophisticated”, “classy”, “charming”, etc.
So if you were able to get good vibes with her, you can expect things to go well. Worst off, you’re $15 in the hole with a good meal in your stomach.
Try this out at least once; it’s good for your wallet and your love life. And remember, girls talk between themselves; this can be a reputation-builder.